Today in therapy I learned that I have in fact been setting boundaries, people have just been disrespecting them !!!🙃🙃🙃

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Almost posted to twitter but imma let it sit another week before I put myself that far out there

Not a whole ass man telling me all the compliments I’ve ever wanted to hear and more?? After the guy I’ve been with for 5.5 years decides to ghost me a 2nd… maybe 3rd time??? Is this a sign from the universe cause I’m taking it.

!!!! If your friend is venting about how other family members discount your thoughts and opinions online while acting nicely in person, don’t discount their feelings. There is someone actively working against their way of life and beliefs system. Some people are assholes. Don’t let them be.

Wow maybe that’s a contributing factor as to why I don’t want to own a car anymore

Alright guys one of the biggest pet peeves I have developed in college. If I am driving you somewhere out of the kindness of my heart, we leave when I want to leave, when it is conviennent for me ESPECIALLY if you aren’t even contributing gas money!!! A healthy boundary I am attempting to set is one where I can leave or revoke an offer if we’re not moving on my time frame. I am FAR too lenient and am now leaving over 2 hours later than I wanted to because of my 2 passengers. Now I will be driving in peak traffic on Memorial Day weekend and both of them just keep saying how it’s fine and it doesn’t matter but it matters to me and I am frustrated at having friends who can’t even apologize for making me late for the zillinth time

I have such a good intuition on people. I met this girl back last summer she moved in with me and my other friend and something was off and I knew I didn’t like her I just didn’t quite know why yet. My roomate thought she was cool and wanted her to live with us the coming year and honestly I didn’t get much say in the factor because she asked the girl before consulting me. So I rolled with it thought she might grow on me, she never did. Fast forward a year and my friend hates her and she does all sorts of weird shit in our apartment and is super disrespectful to all girls. People’s true selves will show, I feel I just have a good intuition from the jump, now I’m like hate to say I told ya so buttttt I did warn ya


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